As I was watching the new HBO series “Insecure” I was inspired by the scene where Lawrence, the boyfriend of the main character Issa, is at the bank cashing one of his unemployment checks. He’s having a conversation with a female teller with whom he seems to be familiar. After Lawrence tells her about his failed interview, she proceeds to give him words of encouragement. She describes him as a “good black man”.
I think it is perfectly fine for you to feel uplifted through the presence of someone else. If their aura fuels your jet let it rip. However don't become so consumed with the thought of them always being there because life happens, real shit happens. You have to remember and concentrate on you in order to discover and develop what truly makes you happy and get you revved every day.